Nearly Half of Women Experience Discomfort During Sex
According to a new Durex survey, nearly half of women experience discomfort during sex, and many endure it in silence because they are unsure of what is considered “normal.”
According to a new Durex survey, nearly half of women experience discomfort during sex, and many endure it in silence because they are unsure of what is considered “normal.”
Out of 2,000 participants, 16% (one in six women) reported that they “often” or “always” feel discomfort during sex. However, only one-third of women said they are completely satisfied with their sexual experiences.
Vaginal Dryness: The Leading Cause of Sexual Discomfort in Women
The survey found that 46% of women identified vaginal dryness as the main cause of sexual discomfort, followed by difficulty reaching orgasm (44%). Additionally, 13% of women said that condoms not being lubricated enough caused pain and discomfort during intercourse.
Interestingly, 18% of women were unaware that vaginal dryness is a natural part of the menstrual cycle and can intensify during certain phases.
The Taboo Around Talking About Female Sexual Satisfaction
The findings also revealed that 72% of women believe that discussing female sexual satisfaction is still taboo, while 60% wish they could talk more openly about sex without fear of judgment.
Furthermore, 76% of participants said that sex education in schools does not adequately cover women’s bodies, sexual health, or female pleasure. Shockingly, three in ten women reported never having received proper education about female anatomy.
Knowing Your Body is the Key to Sexual Pleasure
A Durex spokesperson stated: “Knowing your body, and understanding what is natural and what isn’t, is an important part of enjoying sex.”
Because of limited knowledge, many women don’t know how to respond to discomfort during sex and simply tolerate it. The study also emphasized that conversations about sexual pleasure are often male-centered, which reduces women’s confidence in asking important questions and finding suitable solutions.
A study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine (PubMed) examined the safety and effectiveness of five water-based personal lubricants in relieving discomfort associated with vaginal dryness in both premenopausal and postmenopausal women.
The research showed that these lubricants can reduce vaginal dryness and improve comfort during sex, highlighting the importance of choosing the right product to enhance women’s sexual satisfaction and overall health.
Conclusion
Sex should never be associated with pain, discomfort, or shame. Greater awareness of the female body, open conversations about women’s sexual health, and access to proper education can help women build healthier and more fulfilling sexual experiences.